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Sitting Down As A Family

 Do you sit down as a family at the dinner table? Do you not allow cellphones or other electronic devices
at the table. Do you encourage conversation while everyone is eating? Do you allow everyone a short
time to share their day with each other? Do you propose situations to your children to see what they would do? I hope so....

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